The questionnaire
Why is the questionnaire so thorough?
Because finding the right person deserves more than a few swipes. It's a real conversation, not a form — and it's designed to actually mirror who you are so the matching means something. It saves your progress as you go, so you can pick up right where you left off.
Can I stop and finish later?
Yes. Use "Save progress & continue later" inside the questionnaire and we'll send you a private link that picks up exactly where you left off.
Do I need to upload a photo?
Yes — one photo, uploaded at the end of the questionnaire. It's used for your match reveal profile so your match can recognize you. It's never shown publicly and isn't visible to anyone before the event.
Matching
How does the matching actually work?
Our compatibility framework weighs your answers against every other member's across four pillars — Reflection, Values, Lifestyle, and Physical — with hard gates for genuine dealbreakers like family planning and age range. Your match is never random.
Will I know who my match is before the event?
No — that's the point. Someone in the room was chosen with you in mind, and our hosts know who. They'll look for a natural moment to bring you two together so you're not left to work the room on your own. It's built to be introvert-friendly.
Events
When is the first event?
We're not announcing a date until the room is right. We're building toward 200 serious singles in Columbus before the first invitation goes out — the event gets built around the people in it.
How do I get access to an event?
Once you're matched for an upcoming event, you'll receive a personal access code by email to reserve your ticket.
The reveal
How do I find out if we matched?
After the event closes, you'll get a private link showing your potential matches — people who scored highly with you. Select the ones you felt something with. Contact info only shares if they selected you back, within a 12-hour window.
Privacy & communication
Is my information private?
Yes. Your answers are never shared with other members, and we never sell your data. Full details are in our
Privacy Policy.
Can I opt out of texts or emails?